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the website that makes death open to discussion

Click on the images for an explanation about the exercises.

Positive thinking – Communicating - Acting.

Acknowledge negativity and change.

Make time for freedom, space and peace.

Daily

Consider your truth about death.

Learn to give love and to let go.

Donating and clearing away.

Regularly

Practice gratitude.

Tell your life’s story.

Practice Tonglen for yourself (Tibetan exercise in giving and receiving).

Dealing with one’s own suffering

Accepting suffering unconditionally.

Prepare spiritually to death.

Practice Tonglen for others (Tibetan exercise in giving and receiving).

Dealing with other people’s suffering

Learn to love unconditionally.

Forgive yourself.

Find out what it is you need right now.

In case of:  Fear  .  Sadness

Make a connection with the other person.

Recover, heal or forgive the relationship.

Act on your feelings.

In case of:  Powerlessness  .  Anger  .  Guilt

Exercises about death

The exercises are easier than you might think. Start practicing and persist!!

Do you wonder how the exercises relate to death??

Death is more living than you can imagine right now!

 

One last exercise

(From: The Tibetan book of living and dying - S. Rinpoche)

 

Dedicating our death

Think about all other people in the world who are suffering as much or even more than you.

Fill your heart with compassion for them.

Pray to the one for whom you believe that your suffering can help relieve theirs.

Keep dedicating your pain time and time again to relieve their pain.

Discover a new source of power within yourself; a compassion you were not aware of before. 

A certainty that your suffering is not in vain but meaningful.